It's like that really famous song by James Bay, "let it go" sometimes you have to let everything and everyone go and let things be for awhile to see what and who was worth it in the end.
We as humans hate change. We say we're accepting of it and that we welcome it, but do we really?
I know when things don't go our way we get upset, and we tend to hold it in for a few hours or days (I know I'm guilty of this, I stay butt hurt for a while). We cannot control that, we'er humans. We have to break away from that though. When change occurs there's a reason. I know lately so many things in my life has changed and things continue to change each day. I hold onto things too tight and for too long.
I'm my own worst enemy sometimes. I'm writing about letting things go and see what stays because this is something I have to learn how to do for myself.
I know not everything will remain constant. Variables change... and they're constantly changing and shifting. For a few weeks I was upset about this specific situation. Not about the person but their conscious act. Lies to me are more painful than the truth.
Its like when someone lies to you, they're indirectly telling you that you don't have the mental capability to handle the truth. What kind of horse sh*t is that? I've had to get over that and I have, because honestly, in the end everything turned out to be in my favor.
The point is this,
When things seem like their coming to an end and there's no other turns you can make or no other road ahead just go with it. Embrace it. Let everything go. What stays is what was meant to have stayed. Don't loose sleep or change your mood because of it. Everything that happens even though at that moment seems like the world is ending, it's the words way of telling you something better is coming and that you tried.
What's meant to be will always be and it will always find you in the end.