I was watching a show last night on Hulu, I'm not going to say with which reality dating show it was... okay, maybe I might say it. It wasn't Bachelor in Paradise (... I'll be watching that tonight), but it was another show called Dating Naked. Yes, I know, weird.
Weird show, weird concept but when you've already watched all the shows you've wanted to see and your other shows have no recent episodes, you're kinda limited and at the mercy of what Hulu has that you can easily binge watch. Just say'n.
So the premise of the show is dating with no attachment and putting everything out there. Obviously, you're naked. I was three episodes in, I'm actually kinda hooked to see the love triangles that's formed and are forming. But someone said, "people make exits in your life for a reason."
I know this is a valid point and statement because I've talked about it before in some of my posts and I mention it in my book (more in-depth of course).
People don't just show up into your life for no reason. Things don't work in that form. When people leave or make a grand exit it's supposed to be like that. Sometimes it's worth fighting for but others you have to evaluate and think what you've learned from it to this point. People don't change. Their attitudes change... but people rarely do.
It's kind of like when people show you their face, believe it.
I found this to be ironic yesterday because people have recently left my life and some new ones have come into it. I've been having these thoughts of, "is this too good to be true? It must be too good to be true." Only time will tell.
My suggestion to you is this,
Take the time to open yourself of to the knew people coming into your life. See what their purpose for you is and why they have come into your life now. Is it to guide you through some rough waters or to help you surpass something you had no idea you had the strength and courage of overcoming? Is it to show you something you had no idea you had in yourself or is it not even about you, maybe you're supposed to help them in some form.
What ever the purpose for your meeting and them sticking around if the day comes where they have to leave, and make an exit, don't be sad or mad, just be grateful for their time and care for you throughout your experiences with them.