I know that sometimes we can get discouraged if something we want takes longer than what we plan for.
We have to realize that everything good in life, that's worth having takes time to develop and create itself. It's like riding a bike, you had to go through the steps and process of the training wheels and falling off a couple times, being completely scared of falling before you actually got the hang of it.
We have to learn and be okay with not everything we want is going to come to us at the time we want it. Our time may not be the right time for us... and sometimes we have to go by what our Father God or any higher power that you believe in wants for you.
Don't get boggled down or discouraged, things that are meant for you will come and happen for you. Just allow yourself to be open to the time it takes and enjoy the ride. It'll be worth it in the end.