Lets be real here, we all know Oprah is a badass, you may have your opinion about her, but lets be honest, she's just a plan badass...
No one has a story like hers.
If you aren't aware of her background, and just think she's some God, I dare you to go read her story and you tell me if she isn't inspirational.
One of my favorite Oprah quotes is this one:
"Turn your wounds into wisdom."
We've all been in a metaphorical battlefield, some of us in an actual battlefield, (thank you to all the men and women who put their lives on the line for our safety every day) where we sacrificed a lot at the time, got nothing in return except for wounds, scares and broken hearts.
We have to bounce back from those wounds, we can't let them effect us and consume us. WE have to turn those physical and emotional scares into something positive.
Why not do something about it?
Learn from it, teach others about it, inspire those around you with whatever wounds you have. Everyone has something to teach us whether we want to learn from them or not. Lets be more open and reseptive to learning.
There's no reason for you to hold onto your wounds, they've served their purpose as a instrument of learning now help others not make the same mistake.