For the past few days I've been getting random texts, calls, snaps from people who have been far in my past.
I woke up today thinking how weird is it that more than one person is resurrecting and coming back to life as if it's for closer... or something to that sort.
When the first person who was from my past reached out, it didn't bother me, because I did in fact need closure from that relationship as a way to finally let things go and move past them. But since that day, I've been getting a lot more of these random texts from random people I would have never thought I'd hear from again.
When people come into your life it's for a certain purpose. They're meant to teach or show you something about yourself that you didn't know you had. Or maybe they aren't for your learning benefit but you are for theirs. When those same people leave it means their time with you was done, you learned/discovered what you needed to learn and you helped them learn/discover something about themselves.
So, why do they come back?
I'm no genius or guru, but from what I've read people coming back from the past means they have something left that's been untold. Its more like a make peace with reality so you can finally move forward and not think everyone is the same way, kinda thing.
Last night around midnight I got this random text from someone, (I didn't have the persons name in contact because why keep people stored in your phone without a purpose?)
Side note: Do yourself a favor get rid of all the unnecessary contacts in your phone! Purge out the waste and the uselessness out of your life! You'll feel better. My motto, if I haven't talked to you within the time span of 1-3 months I don't need your number anymore.
Back to last night before I got off on my little tangent. This random person texted me asking why I've said something to someone about him. Okay, here's my little rant.
1. Don't ignore people.
If you don't like someone or just want to be friends with someone, be straight forward. This is kindergarten, you have words and you can use those words to speak. I know they say the ignorance is bliss and blah blah blah, but not when you just drop off the face of the Earth and come back 5 months later.
2. When someone you think or consider is a friend and they ask, more like insist on knowing about said person because they're so messed up in the head from past relationships and don't want to make a mistake, you simply give your opinion to that friend of said person. It's not being mean, it's being honest and truthful. Especially if that's how you felt about that person at that time. You don't have to go into elaborate detail just short sweet and to the point.
To the person who texted me last night, I know you may want to seem all bad and tough, but if you haven't talked to someone in months, don't start by asking "why did you say this about me, and I want to clear the air." That means A. you have a guilty conscious of some sort and B. you're just childish. Leave it alone because that just makes you look somewhat weak.
My point is this,
When someone from your past comes back to light evaluate why they are coming back, is it for your benefit did you need some type of closer or reassurance or is it for their benefit. Don't think too much into it, just let it be after they text and come back.